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At Grandstand Fidgets, all the kids were so serious when it come to their diy cupcakes. There was laughter, giggling and a strong whiff of fragrance in the baking class.

Canon hosted us to a 2-in-1 event last week. Indoor playground and cupcake-baking for the young ones, and photography workshop (with Bob Lee) for the not-so-young ones.

We parents know the kids are in good hands, and we had that few precious moments to learn from a photography pro.

Boon Xin asking whether she can use a heart-shape mold?

Parents snapping away at the cute kiddos, with their chef’s hat, totally engrossed in their cupcake domain.

While kids entertain themselves, parents pick up a tip or two from photographer Bob Lee. Shutter, Focus, how to capture that Moment with your child.

Bob’s tips were simple and easy to understand.
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A for Angle
B for Bokeh
C for Continuous mode
D for Distance and detail
E for Exposure

and finally F to Z – Keep shooting!
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Through his photo sharing, we can feel Bob’s love towards his family, especially his child.

Personally, Daddy always believe that it is the daily photos (those mundane repetitive ones) which will tell our stories decades down the road. The unplanned, the insignificant photos (yes, even the blur ones) offer snippets of our cherished lifestyles.

We celebrate the milestones, but it is often the daily mundane stuffs which tell our story.

Fidgets offers a lot of space and activities to keep kids busy. Crafting section at one corner.

Across the “street”, kids went wild running up the ladders and sliding down the slides. They had an opportunity to play before and after the cupcake class.

Toddler’s section is definitely safer for the little ones, away from the rugged older kids.

Video : Fun at Fidgets

Parents and kids get to bring their yummy treat home.

We would like to thanks Canon and Fidgets for hosting us, and our organiser Claudia. Everyone had an enjoyable afternoon.

Pop by Fidgets website and Fanpage for latest updates.
More event photos have been uploaded on our Fanpage album.

Confidence, one step at a time.
We blog about reassurance recently, remember our kissing post?

Today, Daddy wish to share something about building Confidence.
Every kid has their own learning style, and individual character.

These “individualism” will surface when we teach them to cycle, swim or even studies.
It is almost 99% impossible to copy and paste one teaching methodology on all our kids.
Parents have to improvise, fine tune, then implement.

** Very much like software user-acceptance-test, except the steering committee is only you and your spouse!

Back to our topic on Confidence.
Boon Yee is undergoing swimming class, and he is facing difficulty with one task.
He needs to pick up the swimming goggles from the swimming pool floor.

To us swimmers, it is relatively easy, just dive head first, with two kicks and you should reach it. Depth is only 1.1m.

But when Boon Yee removes his goggles, he suddenly loses his confidence and forgets the “techniques”. Without goggles, Boon Yee cannot see, and he will panic if he miss the item in one attempt.

We always know his techniques and attitude (never give up) is there, but sometimes, he just need a gentle nudge, some confidence boost.

Sometimes, the best way to teach is not by talking, but by showing (有样学样), standing shoulder to shoulder with them. Daddy join Boon Yee one Sunday morning in the cold swimming pool, to train his “Confidence”.

Step 1 – Wearing his swimming goggles
1a) Easy peasy, Boon Yee can pick up anything which Daddy throw to the bottom of the 1.1m pool.

1b) After he has dived and “lock-on” to target, Daddy purposely shift the target.
Boon Yee becomes uncomfortable, as the goggles is suddenly missing, and he realised he might not retrieve it in one attempt (or breathe), and quickly surface.

After a few trials, his confidence grows.

1c) After step 1b), Daddy ask him to swim with the goggles at the bottom, and stay under for a good body length

He is now confident of handing “unexpected” scenarios underwater (where is the SOF application form?).
More importantly, Boon Yee knows he is capable of picking the goggles now.

Step 2 – Without his swimming goggles
2a) First few attempts fail. Boon Yee is very uncomfortable without his goggles.
Cannot see, cannot grab, panic again. His confidence takes a beating.

2b) Daddy teach him to squint (眯眯眼), so he can roughly gauge the direction and depth of the goggles

2c) Both of us are happy when Boon Yee finally pick up the goggles after a few attempts.
He can now confidently moves towards the next hurdle. Boon Yee has learn another skill in life.

No matter what obstacles we face, we keep on trying, never giving up.
Our kids know their Daddy and Mummy will always be there to support them.

We have no doubt that Boon Yee will progress further in his swimming lessons.
When he hit the next hurdle, we will remind him “Remember the underwater goggles?”

** You might be interested in our cycling adventures or our favourite swim coach.

Author: SengkangBabies

Building Confidence, one step at a time.